Shared Post: Love Held Close

So fellow travelers, a truly special guest post today.  This link will bring you to a  moving and beautiful poem about the love we have for our companion animals written by the talented Kate Rantilla, a fellow Creative Bedlam Group member, someone I am also blessed to call friend and Spirit Sister.

Kate is one of those people who has depth in her observations  and a compassionate heart of gold. She also has the BEST soulful laugh. We’ve been rooming together for the Bedlam Events for a couple of years now.  The last time we stayed at the retreat center, a plaque on our door stated  Daughters of the King  and so it came to pass that we became sisters by proclamation.  The ease with which we picked up where we left of when we last saw each other  made it obvious the connection between us was not just a “special event glow.” We went from Roommates for Life to Sisters of the Heart in a hug and a few good laughs.

In a few days Kate and I will meet in Saratoga to hear another CGBF friend, Candy Cuthbert, sing with the Battenkill chorus at the stunning  Zankel Music Center of Skidmore College. The next day we will meet with a few other “farmie” friends at the Round House Cafe for brunch.  It is a respite that comes at a perfect time, when my tolerance  for “stupid $#!+ ”  at work is at it’s breaking point and I can’t afford to break.  I have a daughter headed for college later this year in Tokyo!  But that is the subject for  future post.

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Walk gently on the path my friends and may adventure find you ready.

On Making Magic Happen

So fellow travelers,  I often refer to the Creative Group of Bedlam Farm, an online community of people started by New York Times Best Selling Author Jon Katz.  It is an amazing conglomeration of people from all walks of life who are also writers, photographers, musicians, dancers and artists who paint, draw, zentangle, sew, weave, knit, carve, cook and more.  I have made connections on line which forged into life time friendships when meeting members face to face.  Being part of this experience has changed my life in ways I am only beginning to comprehend, none more powerful than the experience of a heart filled with the joy of giving.

Last summer, when Jon had sudden and unexpected open heart surgery just after the June Bedlam Farm Open house,  we held our collective breath. We filled the Creative Group Facebook page with poems and images of Light and Hope. He not only survived, he returned home in record time.  During his recovery we took up the call to become “warriors of light,” posting images, poetry and prose of inspiration.  Through it all a little thread of wanting to do something more, something “magical,” as our ring leader Lisa Dingle called it, began to grow and weave itself into a full out Super Secret Plan.

Earlier in the year at Jon’s urging, Lisa posted her own travel journal of her family’s magical vacation.  It was time to bring that magic to Bedlam Farm.  So a plan was hatched and miraculously kept secret until the very moment of the final presentation last August. I remember having “sweaty eyes” while sending a message to Lisa saying ” You did it, you made magic happen” and she replied ” We all did it.” It was a lesson in gracious acceptance for Jon and Maria. It was an experience of pure joy for all of us.  In fact it still is, as reflected in this post from Lisa on the group page today:

“Here’s to the crazy ones. The misfits. The rebels. The Troublemakers. The round pegs in the square holes. The ones who see things differently…”

Last summer, this group of creative crazy ones and misfits, and rebels and troublemakers did something absolutely amazing.

When our founder, our guide, our creative spark ignitor and encourager had open heart surgery. We banded together to send him and the love of his life to his favorite place on earth… a place where he and the love of his life find smiles and magic.

And at 4:00 a.m. tomorrow, the car arrives at Bedlam Farm to whisk them away toward Orlando. Let the magic continue.

Jon and Maria have promised to write and post photos of their trip.  I cannot wait.  I am as excited as if I were going to Disney myself. Jon called it a trip of a lifetime. Indeed it will be a lifetime experience for all of us through the power of Magic Made Real.

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(photo note:  Mickey in Tokyo Disney  taken on our own magical vacation in April 2010)

Walk gently on the path my friends and may adventure find you ready.

Ho Mitakuye Oyasin: We are All Related

So fellow travelers some of the best moments from the Bedlam Open House weekends are the spontaneous side trips and adventures shared with fellow “farmies.” Those are the times when relationships initiated in the on-line group are forged into genuine friendships.

During the open house last October,  Donna Bolls asked if I would like to come out to hike the quarry by Tom Atkins’s home where she was staying.  I loved the idea of spending some time with Donna but I was also really tired from what had been a very full weekend so far. Yet, something in me said “go.”  I am grateful I listened to that Inside Voice, something I am getting better at.

When we pulled in his driveway,  Tom emerged from his home, welcomed us warmly and offered to guide us along the quarry trail.  As we climbed the hill,

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Tom told us of the history of the quarry and of the things he saw on and off the path

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during the changing seasons.

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All three of us carried cameras, so we stopped frequently to take shots of things that spoke to us

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and , as is the way with the Bedlam Creatives, we captured images of each other.

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It was a walk filled with beauty

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and mystery

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and the simple joy of friendship.

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I remember Tom’s quiet comment of how he never tired of the view

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I can see why.

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Tom was at his father’s side this week when his father died.  Our group was with Tom in spirit during his vigil, posting our support as he shared his experiences through his moving poems and posts. One of our Bedlam friends was able to attend his father’s memorial service.   Donna is now walking the path of her father’s final days as well. I thought of our quarry hike as soon as I read her post. Two of my friends connected by shared life transitions, a reminder that in so many ways we are all related.

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(note: the title phrase Ho Mitakuye Oyasin is a native american phrase originating from the Sioux but used widely by the tribes of the Iroquois Nation which live in Upstate New York.  It is used with the deepest respect for my teachers who guided me through a Vision Quest experience many years ago.)

Walk gently on the path my friends and may adventure find you ready.

Setting Love Free

 

 

My friend and creative mentor Jon Katz had to let his sweet dog Lenore go today, taken by a  recently discovered painful tumor in her spine.  Her death was a sudden and unexpected blow to all of the Bedlam Farm Community.

It is impossibly difficult to say goodbye to Love.  These words came to me once tears had run dry.

 

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Somewhere in Heaven

Where dogs run free

A friend of mine is walking

Shes eating forbidden apples

And basking in the sun

Her jet black coat soaking up Love

So  Radiant Rays from her sweet gentle heart

Will shine down to comfort those of us left behind.

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Goodbye Lenore, sweet Hound of Love.  Those of us blessed to have visited Bedlam Farm thank you for the love.

(Photo note:  The photos of Lenore were taken at the June 2014 Bedlam Farm Open House.  We sat for a while sharing some secrets and later in the day she offered to help Jeff Anderson’s son Jay with his lunch. )

Farewell Simon

So fellow travelers  there is one less ass in the world and you may be surprised to learn we are worse off for the loss.

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I am grateful to have connected with Jon Katz and Maria Wulf  through the Bedlam Farm Creative Group.  I have made so many wonderful friends as a result of this unique and genuine community. Still I have to say being befriended by Simon is perhaps one of the greatest blessings of this connection. Wait, you ask did I actually say “befriended by a donkey?”  Yes,  indeed I did.  But not any common ass (although read Jon Katz’ latest book Saving Simon and you will realize there are no common donkeys.)

You see as a young teen I was thrown from a horse.  I was a reluctant participant in some trial riding lessons, something I did when pushed by social pressure to fit in. The so called friends I was trying to emulate mocked me for my lack of equestrine skill.  I learned a valuable lesson about peer pressure and true friendship from that experience however I never really overcame my fear of horses.  I tried riding several times over the years, but always felt awkward in the presence of horses.  Until I attended the Bedlam Farm Open House in September 2013 where I first met Simon.  He was so gracious in accepting my hesistant offering of a carrot, nuzzling me gently when I rubbed his nose.  I literally felt all the trauma from my past experience melt away from deep in my heart. My subsequent visits to Bedlam Farm in 2014 were punctuated by reunions with Simon.  His melodious bray made my heart sing. Ever a dog person I was surprised but joyful at this equine connection. His healing gift also made it possible for me to stand fearlessly in the middle of Jeff Anderson’s pasture as his magnificent horses thundered majestically around those of us who attended his photo workshop on the Monday following last October’s open house making it possible for me to capture shots like these.

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Simon has left Bedlam Farm, but he left a healing hoof print on my soul forever.  Thank you Jon and Maria for sharing Simon with us.

Snoopy meets Daft Punk: Part Six and the Band Played On

So fellow travelers, our band’s moment in Macy’s Parade history is about to unfold.

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One thing about the illusion created by the massive character balloons is observers lose all perspective of how close things are to their actual location. It’s the same effect created by large mountains visible from a distance like Mt.Hood or Fuji. Spotting the Wimpy Kid’s broad white forehead created a flurry of activity on our corner, as parents stashed snacks and water bottles, readied signs and checked cameras.  Still before we would see the Bees, there were several attractions to go including the NY Mounted Police Unit with their big blue balloon

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then Dora with her new BFF  pop star Becky G

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followed by none other than Big Bird, Bert and Ernie.  There were several band siblings very excited to see them.

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and I am certain the  Diary of a Wimpy Kid handlers were pleasantly startled by the enthusiastic reception our corner gave their  balloon.

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I heard later that the DWK handlers complimented our band staff on the quality of our kids performance of the patriotic music mix they played along the way.  Each band is given a specific category of music to perform while marching and also for their Herald Square Performance.  Baldwinsville was given “patriotic” for the parade and “relevant contemporary.”  Huh?  Well, we’ll have to wait for them to reach Herald Square to find out just what that means. Our corner came alive,  voices raised in support as half a block to our north we see the school banner and a sea of red hat plumes coming our way.

“There they are!”  “BEEEEEEville!”  “Gooooo BEEES.”  .

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And then, as periodically happens, the parade paused; on our side we saw the assistant director motioning for a halt and with pinpoint precision the band stopped right within photo range. A moment which allowed me to capture this

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Uh Huh.

Wow.

That would be our talented daughter on the left playing bells, marching in the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade.  Of course my eyes got (as we say in the Bedlam Creative Group) “sweaty. ”  I blinked back the tears. I knew I needed to be able to keep the shots in focus because I planned to shoot a continuous stream of photos as soon as the kids were on the move, which they were within minutes.

Last year, NY Times best selling author Jon Katz  wrote a reflection about the difference between photographing and experiencing an event. It grew out of watching the members of the Creative Group he started online armed with cameras recording every moment of the Open House held twice a year at Bedlam Farm II.  As I prepared to gather with my friends last autumn I intentionally challenged myself to commit to “camera free” periods when I could be fully present.  It did not take long to realize the richness of those experiences far surpassed the chagrin of missing a “photo op.” Besides, any number of my Bedlam friends would eventually post photos of anything I didn’t capture. So as I stood on that street corner in New York City, having captured some great shots as the band held steady I lowered my camera and breathed in the moment, trying to meld its memory into every fiber of my being.

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I looked, really looked at our daughter trying to memorize the bright red of her plume, the silver shine of those very heavy bells, the deep concentration in her expression, the pink glow of her frigid fingers, the ramrod stance of her friends in the lines around her.

And just as my heart felt it would burst into tears that could not be held back, I heard the drum major call for the band to march and she raised her mallets to play again

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and march they did, waving their flags

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playing their hearts out

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line by line

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section by section

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color guard bringing up the rear

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followed by their instructors and the band staff

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onward to their soon to be televised performance at Herald Square.

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Snoopy meets Daft Punk: Part Five Balloons Aloft

So fellow travelers, with the Macy’s parade well  underway it wont be long ’til we hear the band, but first a few balloons will pass our corner.

 

There was a tangible surge of excitement as the crowds spotted movement up the road. The cheers spread along the curb just ahead of the first wave of rollerblading clowns. One of them took a pretty good tumble, rolled over and popped right up waving at everyone as if it was all part of the routine.  The clowns slapped hands with people, tossed confetti and handed out balloons to kids.

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A sudden roar of engines startled a rooftop flock of pigeons into flight

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The police motorcade headed our way.  Behind them we spotted the bright yellow Macy’s stars with the massive Thomas the Tank Engine looming behind them.

 

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and, once the motorcycles quieted their engines as they approached Columbus Circle, we could hear the first strains of  a band playing.  Western Carolina University’s Marching Band, over 500 strong  and sounding it strode down the street.

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The thing about band parents is we cheer for any and all bands.  Even during competition season, while we may cheer louder for our own band, we still cheer for every  performance.  Baldwinsville’s field band show earned standing ovations at several competitions. We got so excited for this first band that our visitor from London asked if this was our band. Nope, we assured him the best was yet to come.

Gazing uptown  we scanned for the incoming balloons ( we’d received an update that the kids were on the move), some of us thought we could see the large white head of the Wimpy Kid balloon far behind Thomas, a football and what appeared to be some pumpkin balloons.

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But since we were after all watching the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade, of course Turkey comes first.

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Honestly the bird and his company of pilgrims were dwarfed by Thomas the Tank Engine cheerfully looming large right behind them.  I had to be sure to get a shot for the young son of my friend and Bedlam Farm photography mentor Jeff Anderson.

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Watching the parade on television I always knew the balloons were big, but seeing them pass right overhead I realized how massive they truly are.  Thomas towers several stories high and easily half a city block long, although Toothless from How to Train Your Dragon is currently the longest balloon.

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The number of handlers needed for each balloon ranges from 40 up to 90. It’s a tricky job requiring training and a code of whistled signals which direct the team when and how fast to walk and how much to pull in or let out their ropes to control the balloons. Every handler is either a Macy’s employee or sponsored by one and once on the team, handlers can return every year, so the handlers are a coveted spot.  Which might explain why grown men seem perfectly content to wear Hello Kitty “pinnies”.

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The chop-chop hum of a helicopter overhead drew our eyes skyward.

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Later, we would discover we could go on line and look for photos of ourselves in the crowd, captured by this aerial photography unit. There’s an entire industry stemming from photos participants can order after the parade.

When I returned my focus to the street uptown I gasped. It turns out the large white head we had spotted earlier was in fact Snoopy !  and my heart skipped a beat.

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Suddenly I was ten years old,  glued to the TV in my parents living room watching for the debut appearance of the Snoopy Balloon. I do believe I may have  bounced up and down, as much as my frozen feet would allow, and then held my breath as my childhood favorite drew closer

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and drifted

 

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right overhead…..

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I noticed some drops of water in my shots  (look closely at the buildings in the photos )   I muttered some warnings to the weather gods about the deal we struck where slogging through yesterday’s steady precipitation was repaid with dry marching conditions this morning.  Not surprisingly whatever was sprinkling from the clouds ceased within seconds. Of course Mother Nature would know better than to mess with band moms. Besides it wasn’t only our kids; this band from the Bahamas would not have been able to condition for cold weather as our kids had.

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These kids danced their way down Central Park West Drive as if it was 70 and sunny.

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Their joy was so inspiring I have to say for a few minutes we all felt a warm tropical breeze.  The Bahamians shown here were actually a few floats after our kids, so the music we now heard coming down the street after Snoopy was in fact the high school band from Utah, whose school colors happen to also be black, red and white.

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At this point we were beginning to wonder whether we had miscalculated where in the lineup the kids would be until we spotted it, there uptown….see it?……behind some sort of blue balloon…

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yet another big white head headed our way and this time we knew exactly which balloon which it was.  The Baldwinsville Marching Bees were just minutes away.

(To be continued)

 

 

 

 

 

 

Snoopy Meets Daft Punk: Part Four Send in the Clowns

So fellow travelers, it’s time to send in the clowns.

As I headed through the still dark and quiet streets at Columbus Circle, I heard someone call my name.  I turned to see fellow Baldwinsville Band Parents emerging from a nearby subway entrance. I quickly filled them in on the directions I had received from the NYPD officers and we agreed to find a location just north of the bleachers, where we could line up on both sides of the parade.  Band parents learn how to strategically place themselves to be able to see their kids perform.  For example, I knew our daughter would be on the left (if you faced the oncoming band) end of the bell line.  Other parents had kids closer to the opposite side of the lines. We also knew from messages coming in on our phones that groups were meeting at various locations along 6th avenue.

As people began to arrive and stake out spots along the curb, a sweet young NYPD officer who told us she was assigned to our block advised us to be sure to scoot out to “use the facilities”  before the side streets were closed off.  My husband decided to make a coffee run to Starbucks which was the closest “facility” available. While he was gone, we struck up a conversation with our officer.  We told her our kids were in the parade and much like the NYPD officers who I met an hour earlier, she was genuinely excited for us.  We could also her radio broadcasting reports on various protest groups moving through the streets of Manhattan.

While the combination of protesters and the Nor’Easter had caused severe problems the day before for many people headed into and around the city, we knew from the band text messages that our group had not encountered any problems.  One mom asked a bit anxiously if the protests would interfere with parade and our officer answered confidently “I doubt they will be able to get close enough. Your kids will all be safe.”  I know every parent gathered with me at 62nd Street and CPWest would take a stand that violence on either side of the law solves nothing. But this was not the time or place for politics.  The focus right now was on the kids and their performance.

My husband returned and as he handed out the coffee orders explained the side street had just been closed off to pedestrians. It was about 6:45am, daylight beginning to reveal a slate grey sky….

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The parade is staged at the American Museum of Natural History between 79th and 81st streets. The night before we were able to see the famous balloons and now I had to admit I was almost as excited to see Snoopy as I was to have the band heading our way in about two hours.  All we knew about the band’s location in the line up so far was their performance time at Herald Square would be 10:18am.  (Not 10:15  or 10:20 mind you,  precisely 10:18am and everyone watching at home knew to have their TV tuned on NBC which has exclusive broadcast rights for the Herald Square performances.)  Given the parade route is about 3 miles from start to finish, we figured the band had to be fairly early in the line-up since it would take them just about an hour to march that distance. Remember the parade often has to slow down or pause as the massive balloons make the turns at the SW and SE corners of Central Park. Thankfully the wind was almost dead calm,  perhaps having blown itself out during the blustery Nor’Easter the day before and  cloudy as the morning dawned, we were grateful the air was dry, cold surely but good and dry.

The kids had been training for over a year for this epic march.  Its one thing for young legs to march three miles in cold weather.  Its a whole different experience to march in step, carrying instruments, playing music in time and in tune for three miles.  So to be sure these kids were ready they not only marched in the St. Patrick’s Day parade (known for hitting the coldest weekend in March almost every single year of its history)  they practiced several times a week in November.  One of the last rehearsals before the trip ran on a blustery near single digit lake effect sodden afternoon.

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Several kids said it had been so cold their instruments froze. I told them to take heart since the forecast was holding steady at temps in the 40’s and the threat of storms to pass through before parade day. The toughen up strategy worked; by the time the kids marched the actual distance of 2.7 miles that dry, windless mid 40 degree morning it was far easier than they expected. They weren’t excessively cold or tired and the marched and played like pros.

Still for those of us standing still on concrete curbs it was a long wait as toes slowly froze inspite of multiple layers of socks. ( I had forgotten the crucial toe warmers darn it) We passed the time talking about the sights we had seen the day before, sharing funny stories about the hectic days before the trip trying to get kids packed and ready, showing each other selfies the kids posted.  Suddenly everyone’s phones began pinging and singing.  A message came through the group text: the band was behind the Wimpy Kid balloon, a new balloon in the line-up. (Diary of a Wimpy Kid is a series of popular kids books written by Jeff Kinney. They have a humorous appeal to elementary kids, especially boys.)   Immediately texts were sent to those watching at home.  Keep a eye out for the Wimpy Kid Balloon, our anything but wimpy kids would be right behind him.

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A lively discussion of the Wimpy Kid book and movie series ensued, followed by a discussion of the merits of other book to movie adaptations from Ramona to Lord of the Rings, with a side conversation on Harry Potter revealing that one of our crowdmates was a visitor from across the pond ( London ) who had come to NYC to see the sights with no knowledge of this Macy’s Parade about to take place.  We gladly filled him in and before we knew it someone called out ” Look at the CNN Building.”

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All eyes turned in anticipation up the street and in less than ten minutes the first heralds of the parade rolled towards us…..

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Clowns…..

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Clowns on roller blades…..

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Clowns on roller blades armed with massive pockets full of confetti…..

 

Oh the fun is just beginning.

 

(to be continued)

 

 

 

Snoopy Meets Daft Punk: Part Three Parade Day

So fellow travelers the epic journey of our trip to watch the Baldwinsville Marching Band in the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade continues….

An enhanced snap from Pete’s phone of me slogging through a cold, rainy Nor’Easter swept Times Square

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Sigh.

Finding a good meal when traveling with my Would Be Perfect husband is a challenge.  As willing as he is to travel he is a picky eater, a trait he has held from childhood.  The details are unnecessary here, but it means I do a fair amount of advance research on restaurants when traveling. The problem was we had ended up in a different part of the city than originally planned, so by the time we did find a place agreeable to him, ate our meal and arrived back at the hotel we were thoroughly exhausted.

So I should have slept for more than a few hours but I woke just after midnight, restless and unable to fall back to sleep. I was aware the kids would be waking up soon ( honestly I doubted our daughter had even gone to sleep at all ) to prepare for their early morning ( as in 3am early ) rehearsal time in Herald Square.   I checked my phone but saw no recent messages.

When on the road, the band’s coordinator keeps all parents updated of their activities via a group text message.  It’s a mark of how well run an organization these kids are part of.  So far we knew they had made great time on the drive down two days ago, spent their first day in the city at the 911 memorial and Times Square, eaten dinner at Buca Di Beppo, then were treated to the Rockettes’ Christmas show.  Their second day they took a rather wet excursion out to the Statue of Liberty and then, due to the weather, changed itinerary. Instead of going uptown to the Hayden Planetarium for the afternoon, they headed back to their hotel which was in New Jersey to dry off, grab an early dinner, run a few practice drills and retire early to rest for that 3am rehearsal slot.

Many of the parents who had traveled to New York City to see the kids in the parade also set up a group text to keep in touch. As I’ve written before, the majority of the band parents become a kind of extended family.  It takes a small army to stage the field shows, from the soup kitchen moms who coordinate and serve an entirely donated  hot lunch on show days, uniform/flag volunteers who keep the uniforms clean and sharp, make costumes and do emergency repairs on the fly and the pit crew of dads and moms ( of which I am one) who build sets and props then load them on and off the trailer and haul them on and off the field for every rehearsal and show through the whole season. Staging parades is not as involved, but parents still come out to show their support whether in the brutal humidity of the Great New York State Fair

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or the frigid cold of the annual St. Patrick’s Day parade which routinely coincides with the coldest Saturday in March

 

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The parents’ plan was to meet at various locations along the parade route, wear something red and bring small signs so the kids would have support along the entire route right up to the “silent zone” a few blocks before Herald Square, beyond which only  VIP passes would grant admission.  With the majority of parents visiting the city for the first time, the logistics of navigating the subways and determining when and where to meet on the parade route would have been daunting without the input and assistance from a few seasoned downstate travelers.  Being one of the those who knew the city fairly well,  I kept a close eye on the group messages so I could respond to questions and help folks get around.  Yes there’s an ap for that, still inside info from someone on the ground is always beneficial.

Several families were staying in hotels near Herald Square where blocks of rooms had been reserved at incredibly affordable rates ( especially for the week of  Thanksgiving ) thanks to some advance planning and excellent negotiating by the band’s activity coordinator.  In order to be on time for their assigned rehearsal time at 3am the kids would have to be up at 1am,  pack and check out of their rooms, move all their luggage to two conference rooms (one for boys, one for girls) load all instruments and equipment, dress in full uniform and board the buses to head for Herald Square.

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(photo from one of the band staff captioned “The Band has left the Building”)

I dozed off until messages began to pop up from parents who could hear the bands beginning to rehearse in Herald Square.  By the time 3am arrived, I was wide awake, following both the parent and band group messages. Rehearsal must have gone well; they only needed two run throughs to get the OK that they hit all their marks. Staff posted a few photos….

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and then messaged that everyone would load back on the bus to rest until breakfast scheduled for 5am at the Hard Rock Cafe.

By 5am I was dressed and headed out to scout for viewing locations. In the past year of shooting photos of the band in various parades, I learned if it was not possible to be on the street in front of the band (as in the St. Patrick’s Parade photo above) it was preferable to shoot from a corner where they made a turn, to get an angled shot of each line as they went by (refer to the shot above from the State Fair.) I knew we would not be able to get shots out in the street, so our group was planning to meet at Columbus Circle  where I knew the parade would have to make a turn at the southwest corner of Central Park as it headed along 59th street before heading down 6th avenue. So I had opted to book a hotel a few blocks from Columbus Circle rather than down towards Herald Square.

The night we arrived, I had noticed bleachers set up along the Central Park side of the turn.

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 Some parents were planning to meet at the bleachers, as they had been told the seating was open to the public, first come first serve. However I was almost certain these would be ticketed seating. something the crews working on location confirmed when I showed up at 5:15am.

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 So I spoke with a few NYPD officers who were setting up various barricades along 59th Avenue, east of Columbus Circle.  At first they wanted to direct me out of the area until I explained we had traveled from Upstate New York to see our kids march in parade. They were quite enthusiastic in their response.  Most of them said they couldn’t recall the last time a NY State High School Band was in the parade.  (It has in fact been 2o years since a NYHS was in the parade, and Baldwinsville also had the distinction of being the first band  from Upstate NY to perform in the parade since it began in 1924.)  The officers asked several times for the band’s name and school colors and said they would be sure to tell their reserve section to cheer for the kids. (They made good on their promise; several of the kids mentioned hearing loud cheering from the off duty NYPD delegation and their families who were lined up in front of Trump Hotel at 1 Central Park West .)

My helpful NYPD friends confirmed the bleachers at Columbus Circle were indeed ticketed seating only, as would be most of the standing areas along both sides of 59th Ave and Central Park South.  They advised picking one of the blocks just north of Columbus Circle, on either side of the street which they assured me would all be open to the public.  So I sent out a message to the parent group text and headed in that direction.  As I crossed the still empty and silent street and looked north up Central Park West I had to catch my breath as my heart skipped a beat in anticipation.  Soon,  very soon our kids would be marching down this very street making history.

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(To be continued)

Snoopy meets Daft Punk: Part Two a Night at the Museum

So fellow travelers, the journey to NYC and the Macy’s Thanksgiving Parade continues

For a kid growing up in the Bronx, the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade is as iconic as the Jolly Ole Elf who arrives in town at the parades end.  When the announcement came out two years ago that the Baldwinsville Marching Band would be in the Macy’s Parade it was a thrilling moment.  There was no doubt in my mind I would be in the crowd watching those kids march those historic blocks to perform at the star in Herald Square.

So I was not the least bit surprised to find I could not sleep the night before Thanksgiving Day.  My husband was sound asleep well before midnight and by all rights I ought to have been just as tired. We had spent a full day in the city, braving wind gusts and steady rains to visit the 911 Memorial Park ( a deeply moving experience which I will write of at a future time)

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Times Square

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and the American Museum of Natural History.

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Hardy Central New Yorkers are not easily deterred by weather, even when the weather on hand is an early winter Nor’easter.  Still I kept thinking how much I preferred snow to rain when the temperatures hovered around freezing and sleet pelleted my camera creating a haze an impossible to focus through on my lens. A warm lunch with a good friend, whom I had not seen in over 20 years brightened our spirits enough to steel us for a trek uptown to catch the staging of the famous balloons.

I had not had a chance to visit the Hayden Planetarium since it reopened in the The Frederick Phineas and Sandra Priest Rose Center for Earth and Space.  The Rose Center for Earth and Space as it is more commonly known (Honestly I prefer the full name. Yes, I know the original is long but why wouldn’t one use a title which incorporates the name Phineas?  Every time a bonded pair of dogs comes into the rescue think of bringing them home and renaming them Phineas and Ferb)  anyways  the Rose Center is spectacular.  To be greeted by a detailed relief globe of the moon is sheer joy for someone who had a map of the moon on her wall and asked for a telescope the Christmas every other girl wanted the Barbie Townhouse.

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Just before the planetarium show ( which I cannot blame my Would Be Perfect husband for sleeping through as he drove the whole trip down ) we ran into some fellow band parents one of whom made a point of telling me not to miss the Christmas Tree in the AMNH main lobby.  It had, she said, an origami theme.  I would have just enough time after the show to make it through the building to see it before closing.  This did mean I would have to race through the Biodiversity exhibit and also bypass the dinosaurs which I felt was an irreproachable breech of etiquette since that very exhibit is the one which awakened my interest in science decades ago on a second grade field trip. I did however get to meet my number one American Hero; he graciously consented to a quick photo.

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and his excellent museum staff cheerfully pointed us in the right direction where  upon we discovered the tree which this year was a tribute to the movie Night at the Museum,  there was even one piece featuring the Teddy Roosevelt character ( portrayed in the movie by Robin Williams, who yes is indeed in the recently released part Three!)

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The origami tree has I discovered been an annual tradition for over 30 years.  We had time to wander through a few more exhibit, until an announcement sent me racing back through the massive halls to get to the Planetarium gift shop before closing to make some Christmas gift purchases.

Across Theodore Roosevelt Park was the staging area for the massive balloons which are a highlight of the Macy’s Thanksgiving Parade. By now the shifting temps had turned the precipitation into large globs of cold slush. I was certainly glad I had opted to leave my DSLR back at the hotel to dry out for the more important photos of the day to come. Still the balloons were massively impressive, held captive by massive nets weighed down by several tons of sand bags.

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The Adventure Time balloon, a cartoon show popular with many of the band kids. ( It features an imaginary universe with quirky characters like Lady Rainicorn  a unicorn that speaks Korean.  ) a random balloon we could not identify  and my favorite shot  which I call the Elf on the Shelf face plant or One too many Rum Toddys.

However, it was the moment I saw the Snoopy balloon when it hit me.

My God.

I have a kid who’s in the Parade.

THE Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade.

Performing at Herald Square in a little over twelve hours.

 

I was suddenly aware I was tired and cold and in desperate need of some kind of warm comfort food.

( to be continued)